Biblical Sex and Family Issues



































































































We have known for quite some time that there has been a war against the family, a war against the Church, a war against the Bible, and a war against Christianity. For decades the attacks have grown and their impact has been more and more damaging to the family, the church and the whole of westernized society.

Since the 1980's the Christian household has been in an utter tailspin through the sundering of divorce. Beginning in 2005: Divorce among Evangelicals, Fundamentalists, Pentecostals, and Charismatic’s, has exceeded that of the unsaved.

During this same time perid (1980-Now) we have had a number of nationally recognized, family- based ministries that have arose along with a number of so-called Christian psychologists and the like. For two and a half decades these have collaborated together and have pontificated on radio, television, have conducted marriage seminars, and written endless books and articles. All told these have amounted to 10,000 assorted band-aides and quick fixes. (That for the most part have been little more than Christian psycho-babble) So that while all the men and women of these ministries have greatly enriched themselves financially at the expense of beaten and wounded sheep that are so desperate that they would pay anything to find relief, from those sins that beset them. In the last twenty-five years these priests of Baal have not been able to call fire down from heaven to cleanse and heal the Christian household of the divorce plague or for that fact any of its other maladies.

The reasons for their low success rate are twofold:

First: Let me say here categorically these men and women of these ministries know not the Lord, and the Lord has not sent them, and this is evidenced in that the word of God is not in their mouth,(For it it were their words would have power to save, heal and deliver) but rather they speak and preach and teach the Talmudic doctrines and traditions of men. (Which are of no effect.) If you believe these carnal men and womens words are equal with scripture and the Word that proceedeth out of the mouth of Father -- You do not need to read any further. -- You should leave this site and return to these priests of Baal and wait there to see if they can heal the "wound of my people" spoken of in scripture that cannot be healed by men.

And Second: That they have openly and unapologetically turned to the world and its psychological soothsayers to conjure up plausable sounding answers for the sick and needy that come to their doors and pretend that this mixture of Psychology and the Bivle are all under some vast spiritual umbrella of truth, combining the so called wisdom of this world, the lusts of the flesh, and the devil so that now their teachings at have been all nicely “Christianized.”

What the people of God need is the straight scoop, not a lot of smoke and mirrors. We desire the problems that beset us identified in means we can understand, We desire that the works of the wicked one in our day and hour be made manifest that we might be able to see and war against them. And we seek concrete answers from the word of God as to what we need to do to build righteous households unto the Lord that will not fall when the rain and wind beat against it for it is founded upon the Rock.

What has occurred in recent decades in the church is actually strange thing, not at least to any who read the bible. It is described in great detail from its symptoms to the cure.

Jeremiah 10:19 Woe is me for my hurt! my wound is grievous; but I said, Truly this is a grief, and I must bear it

Jeremiah 15:18 Why is my pain perpetual, and my wound incurable, which refuseth to be healed? wilt thou be altogether unto me as a liar, and as waters that fail?

Jeremiah 30:12 For thus saith the LORD, Thy bruise is incurable, and thy wound is grievous.

Micah 1:9 For her wound is incurable; for it is come unto Judah; he is come unto the gate of my people, even to Jerusalem.

Nahum 3:19 There is no healing of thy bruise; thy wound is grievous: all that hear the bruit of thee shall clap the hands over thee: for upon whom hath not thy wickedness passed continually?

Hosea 5:12- 15 (Here is the behavior of the church with all the corrupt prophets and ministries she has gathered around her) Therefore will I be unto Ephraim (Evangelicals) as a moth, and to the house of Judah (Fundamentalists, Pentecostals and Charismatics) as rottenness. When Ephraim saw his sickness, and Judah saw his wound, then went Ephraim to the Assyrian, and sent to king Jareb: yet could he not heal you, nor cure you of your wound. For I will be unto Ephraim as a lion, and as a young lion to the house of Judah: I, even I, will tear and go away; I will take away, and none shall rescue him.—(And here is the Cure) I will go and return to my place, till they acknowledge their offence, and seek my face: in their affliction (Until) they will seek me early.

There is a rottenness and defilement in the House of God. The Church has become a festering corpse unto God. The Church can see its sickness and wounds. But instead of turning to the Lord to heal them, they have turned to the Assyrian, part of the Babylonian priesthood; they have turned themselves to King Jareb – (Hebrew: He who contends.) He contends with God with his mixed teachings, his polluted sacraments his doctrines and teachings of men and even though he cannot heal their sickness, corruption or heal their festering wound. The Church takes great comfort in this, their special friend. – For he who contends, he is a man rich in tradition, and he has great meaning in his multitude of ceremony. He is a showman that always gives a good performance. He always leaves the masses standing on their feet applauding wildly and shouting his adoration and throwing down their tithes and offerings.

And yet after his great meetings, after the Church finally returns home, and they find their sickness and wound remains, what do these blind and wretched people say in their heart? Is King Jareb false? – No! They say, “We will go to more meetings; we must give him even greater offerings. We must buy still more of his books and tapes and videos. We must follow and obey all the more after his every doctrine and precept. We must study and learn of all his traditions, and then we shall be healed as we gain the fullness of that which he speaks of.” And then these feel so fortunate, and so comforted that they have such a one as King Jareb in their midst.

In Our Sex and Family page we will take the same no-holds-barred preaching and teaching that we have on our main webpage Ek-Klesia in the Wilderness. We are committed to speaking those things that the Lord has given by revelation, only as we can abundantly confirm these things in Scripture, in the Words of Christ and the Apostles and finally in what is spoken in the original Greek and Hebrew.

I strenuously feel I am the wrong man for the job in writing these following web pages on Sex and Family issues – As I have failed and fell greatly short in all these very areas during the 23 years of my marriage, a marriage that ended with the sundering of myself and my wife and of the children of my household. My marriage ended when my unbelieving wife departed January 8th 2003 while I was away on a business trip abandoning my children at home, so I had to immediately cut short my business trup and return home to care for my children. Shortly thereafter she filed for divorce. Today my household is split between Alaska and South Carolina while myself and my two eldest children have come into a measure of peace, my two youngest are still in turmoil over the things that have befallen them, their hearts and souls are ever before me. (So if you want a reason not to read on, this would be a big one.)

Yet despite all of this the Lord, for close to a year now, has spoken to me some 200 -300 pages of notes on matters of sex and family issues, so that I have greatly struggled with the creation of this page and the writing of the articles that need to be written here. This has been no small challenge to me as I have been sick with Congestive Heart Failure and a number of severe impairments that from June of 2007-- April of 2008 left me virtually unable to write. But the Lord has seen fit to have me continue writing once again. So as of April 2008 with this page being over a year old in all actuality the majority of the notes I mentioned have not been published but remain still as notes or as a miriad of articles I started but was not able to complete due to certain lacks on my part.

Despite all of this I feel compelled of God to write these. I write not because I am someone, or that I suppose myself to be someone. Far from it, as I have said elsewhere I fully recognize that I am nothing, as I wield no special authority from God, I possess no special mantle, no special anointing, I am little more than a scribe that records what I see and hear as best as I can.

Even though I am a licensed preacher, I have never been ordained and am repelled at the thought, and for that fact I have no affiliation with any national ministry, any church organization or denomination.

I also feel there are many that are far better than I to speak these words. Both from a standpoint of eloquence, and from a standpoint that these others are already known in some capacity and that if these words were spoken by others that they might find greater acceptance. But then who am I to question the wisdom of God in choosing weakness and that which is nothing?

1 Corinthians 1:26-28 For ye see your calling, brethren, how that not many wise men after the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called: But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty; And base things of the world, and things which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are not, to bring to nought things that are:

So I bow before the Lord Jesus Christ and submit myself unto Him and His will and purposes.


The following webpage contains articles that have unfiltered Greek and Hebrew translations
(By unfiltered we mean the traditional translations that biblical translators give in accordance to the traditions held by their respective denominations.) So that the translations while being backed up by proper scholarship that will DEFINITELY offend anyone who has discipled themselves in the doctrines and traditions of 6th century Roman Catholic Talmudic Christianity, in all its various mordern forms such as: Calvinism, Victorianism, Feminism, and Political Correctness.

And be further warned that the following webpage may contain any or all of the following: articles, national polls and survey numbers, descriptions of sexual practices, images
(This will be kept to an absolute minimum.) and or links to other websites and helps dealing with, but not limited to, Christian family issues and Biblical Christian sex and sexuality issues such as:

Arresting divorce in its footsteps.

Restoring households after they have been sundered by divorce.

Coming to grips with being unequally yoked in marriage.

Getting married to unbelievers.

The training up of one's self in biblical sexuality in preparation of a long and joyous fruitful Christian Marriage.

The repairing and healing of damaged marriages in which Talmudic sexual acesticism and feminism has brought the holy marital bed to a state of weakness, sickness, and death.

And the training up in the free exercise of biblical sexuality within the confines of the biblical marriage of a man and a woman.