What
causes a woman to seek underage sex?
The Intelligencer
| June 15, 2008 |
JO CIAVAGLIA
What is so bad about this is the corruption getting
young teens boys to commit adultery or fornication with them is once this gate
is opened in the life of a teen, they will continue their promiscuity and
spread their acts of fornication to underage teen girl after teen girl fully
protected by the school system and the law to do so.
We have seen these acts particularly in public
schools, and there seems to be an upswing also in mothers using their children
to lure other teens that their mother can have parties offering alcohol and
drugs and sexual trysts. Hear now what I say by the Lord that this same rot is
in the church and we are speaking of Evangelicals, Fundamentalists,
Pentecostals, and Charismatics. These same things are going on between divorced
women and wives with troubled marriages these are seeking their sexual kicks
with defenseless trusting church young people. This and other perversions have
been festering in shadows within churches and now the hour has come that this
festering rot will break open sending forth its mold spores filling these
churches with all manner of with rottenness in its walls, in its floor, in its roof
so that there will be no soundness anywhere within and these churches so that
their inhabitants will suffer continual sickness and weakness and death from
breathing in the toxic spore laden air that is in them. The Lord would say come
forth, arise and be no more a partakers of her sins. Come forth into the light,
come forth unto me, come forth and cleanse yourselves from all the filth that
you have been made to wallow in and partake of for sustenance. Come forth and
be no more bound in darkness.
What makes a grown woman pursue a guy who gets
carded at R-rated movies, (Under age 15) lives
with his parents who give him an allowance and, who if your actions are
revealed, would ruin your reputation and possibly land you in jail?
Theories abound. Some might surprise you.
Like how mentally, they are about the same age.
Sexual abuse
involving older women and teen boys is an underreported crime, one that experts say has been largely ignored by the
public, legal system and academic researchers for reasons including sexual
double standards and evidence suggesting teen boys often are willing
participants.
But that attitude is changing.
Prosecutions of women for sex abuse have risen
nationwide in the past several years, law enforcement experts say. Locally,
last week two women from
Angela Marie Honeycutt, 38, and Lynne Long, 45,
both of Lower Makefield, were charged Wednesday in
connection with alleged indecent acts that took place during a teen boy
sleepover in April.
Honeycutt was charged with statutory sexual
assault, a second-degree felony, and several lesser felonies and misdemeanors.
She is charged with engaging in sex acts with two boys, ages 14 and 15.
Sleepover host Long was charged with endangering the welfare of children and
corruption of minors.
In the past decade, high-profile arrests involving
inappropriate and illegal sexual contact between women and boys have captivated
the nation.
Among the most infamous cases, both involving
middle school teachers, were Debra LaFave, 23, who
had sex with a 14-year-old student, and Mary Kay LeTourneau,
34, who began a sexual relationship with her 13-year-old student, later gave
birth to two of his children, served jail time for abusing him and then married
him in 2005.
An estimated
1,500 women are in prison for sexual abuse of children. The
The report
also found among children ages 7 to 11 and 15 to 17, boy victims outnumbered
girls. On average, female molesters were
nine years older than their male victims, compared with a six-year age gap
between male offenders and teen girl victims.
Other research agencies like Child Trends in
A 2005 Child Trends research brief on the subject
revealed that one in four males surveyed reported his first sexual experiences
were with a woman usually a few years older.
Of more than
2,000 males, ages 15 to 24, asked, though, half who had a first sexual
experience with an older woman reported an
age gap of five years or more.
The abuse connection
Child molesters share some common features
regardless of gender, according to the Center for Sex Offender Management in
But the center also noted some key differences
between men and women offenders.
Among them sexual victimization histories are far
more common among female sex offenders than men, and their abuse experiences are often more
longstanding, (They last fo
r years as opposed to months) extensive (They seek to perform a far wider range of things for their
own satisfaction many of these are reenactments of the romance novels they
wallow in) and severe. (They are willing to perform any sex act provide alcohol and
drugs to keep this going) Adult women also are more likely than men to commit sex
offenses with a willing participant.
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The largest study so far involving female sex
offenders found the sexual abuse connection, according to its author, Susan
Strickland, a
For her research, Strickland surveyed 130 female
prisoners, including 60 serving time for sexual offenses.
She found
that women who have sex with boys lack the mature relationship skills to
partner with men their age. They are also motivated by a need for power and
control, and they see the boy as a blank slate they can turn into the partner
they want. (This is the profile to a tee that I
have personally witnessed)
Women sex offenders may never have had a
relationship in which they felt safe, Strickland added.
Women who
seek sex with underage boys are also more likely than men to focus on one
person and to profess love and loyalty and a sense of a particular and profound
bond, (If this indeed was the case with their
own husbands how different would their marriages be?) psychologists say.
Emotional overload
Is there any reason to think the motives are
different? Then you have to go with the standard story, but with the genders
reversed, said Soble, a philosophy professor at
Emotions are
part of why he believes women pursue teen boys. (This is 100%
true – emotions evoked by immersing themselves in romantic and sexual fantasies
– we will add here what we consider the warning signs. First does a woman have
free access you young teens around puberty or just above that age. Second is
the woman depressed, and withdrawn, Third does the woman have a bad marriage or
relationships, Forth does she flood herself with romance/sexual novels, or
romance videos and the like, even fantasy romance/sexual novels involving
vampires, were wolves and the like – so as to feed her emotions, and to
temporarily fill the void she feels in herself and her current lifestyle. If a
woman placed herself in this kind of opportunity and exhibits these kinds of
behaviors she is a highly likely candidate to pick out a fat juicy little lamb to
sate herself with. The victims are too easy pickings. How much more are the
pickings easy in a church were half the members are divorced woman another
quarter are women having difficult marriages, there are the youth groups these
women hang around, there is the youth choir, there are all the family things
and female meetings that present opportunities for contact. Or perhaps she goes
fishing in other neighborhood churches or fellowships while acting exemplary in
her home church and fellowship. In churches were fornication adultery and even
abortion occur regularly to cover their perverse deeds, can it be of any
surprise that preachers and elders are corrupt and perverse? And where these
are true can it be of any
surprise that there are “Christian” female wolves on the prowl in your church
or fellowship for your sons, to corrupt them in everyway possible? We sternly
declare that this is so. We sternly declare there is a need for prayer and
intercession in every church and fellowship so that the Lord will begin to
speak and reveal the sin and corruption that is in your midst. This is not an option it is a commandment of
the Lord. Such sin must be decried, and cut off roots stalk and leaves from
your fellowship.)
It's not simply why would they do it, but why do
it knowing they'll be ostracized if they get caught, they are in trouble, and
will get more attention than a man would get? he said.
It's the power the emotions have to kill our rationality, and women seem to be
as susceptible as men to having their rationality undermined by their emotions
and passions.
What also remains unclear is the long-term impact
on teen boys. (High sexual promiscuity with other girls their own age in
middle and high school)
What evidence is available” gathered through male
prisoners and men in addiction treatment” is the experience disrupts normal
adolescent psychological development, Strickland said.
A teen's immature brain cannot process the adult
behavior they are engaging in, and, as a result, it skews social and sexual
outlook, distorts thinking and hinders the ability to relate to a partner their
own age, she explained.
Most teen boys involved in sexual relationships
with older women don't feel they've been violated, a belief that Strickland
says is rooted in society stereotypes, while girls in the same relationships
are sent the message they've been taken advantage of, boys are congratulated
and admired.
FEMALE
SEX OFFENDERS
Source: Center for Sex Offender ManagementJo
Ciavaglia can be reached at 215 949-4181 or jciavaglia@phillyburbs.com.