We have known for quite some
time that there has been a war against the family, a war against
the Church, a war against the Bible, and a war against Christianity.
For decades the attacks have grown and their impact has been more
and more damaging to the family, the church and the whole of westernized
Since the 1980's the Christian household has been in
an utter tailspin through the sundering of divorce. Beginning
in 2005: Divorce among Evangelicals,
Fundamentalists, Pentecostals, and Charismatic’s, has exceeded
that of the unsaved.
During this same time perid (1980-Now)
we have had a number of nationally recognized, family- based ministries
that have arose along with a number of so-called Christian psychologists
and the like. For two and a half decades these have collaborated
together and have pontificated on radio, television, have conducted
marriage seminars, and written endless books and articles. All
told these have amounted to 10,000 assorted band-aides and quick
fixes. (That for the most part have been
little more than Christian psycho-babble) So that while
all the men and women of these ministries have greatly enriched
themselves financially at the expense of beaten and wounded sheep
that are so desperate that they would pay anything to find relief,
from those sins that beset them. In the last twenty-five years
these priests of Baal have not been able to call fire down from
heaven to cleanse and heal the Christian household of the divorce
plague or for that fact any of its other maladies.
The reasons for their low success rate are twofold:
First: Let me say here categorically these men and women
of these ministries know not the Lord, and the Lord has not sent
them, and this is evidenced in that the word of God is not in
their mouth,(For it it were their words
would have power to save, heal and deliver) but rather
they speak and preach and teach the Talmudic doctrines and traditions
of men. (Which are of no effect.)
If you believe these carnal men and womens words are equal with
scripture and the Word that proceedeth out of the mouth of Father
-- You do not need to read any further.
-- You should leave this site and return to these priests
of Baal and wait there to see if they can heal the "wound
of my people" spoken of in scripture that cannot be healed
And Second: That they have openly and unapologetically
turned to the world and its psychological soothsayers to conjure
up plausable sounding answers for the sick and needy that come
to their doors and pretend that this mixture of Psychology and
the Bivle are all under some vast spiritual umbrella of truth,
combining the so called wisdom of this world, the lusts of the
flesh, and the devil so that now their teachings at have been
all nicely “Christianized.”
What the people of God need is the straight scoop, not
a lot of smoke and mirrors. We desire the problems that beset
us identified in means we can understand, We desire that the works
of the wicked one in our day and hour be made manifest that we
might be able to see and war against them. And we seek concrete
answers from the word of God as to what we need to do to build
righteous households unto the Lord that will not fall when the
rain and wind beat against it for it is founded upon the Rock.
What has occurred in recent decades
in the church is actually strange thing, not at least to any who
read the bible. It is described in great detail from its symptoms
to the cure.
Jeremiah 10:19 Woe is me for
my hurt! my wound is grievous; but I said, Truly this is a grief,
and I must bear it
Jeremiah 15:18 Why is my pain
perpetual, and my wound incurable, which refuseth to be healed?
wilt thou be altogether unto me as a liar, and as waters that
Jeremiah 30:12 For thus saith
the LORD, Thy bruise is incurable, and thy wound is grievous.
Micah 1:9 For her wound is incurable;
for it is come unto Judah; he is come unto the gate of my people,
even to Jerusalem.
Nahum 3:19 There is no healing
of thy bruise; thy wound is grievous: all that hear the bruit
of thee shall clap the hands over thee: for upon whom hath not
thy wickedness passed continually?
Hosea 5:12- 15 (Here
is the behavior of the church with all the corrupt prophets and
ministries she has gathered around her) Therefore
will I be unto Ephraim (Evangelicals)
as a moth, and to the house of Judah
(Fundamentalists, Pentecostals and
Charismatics) as rottenness. When
Ephraim saw his sickness, and Judah saw his wound, then went Ephraim
to the Assyrian, and sent to king Jareb: yet could he not heal
you, nor cure you of your wound. For I will be unto Ephraim as
a lion, and as a young lion to the house of Judah: I, even I,
will tear and go away; I will take away, and none shall rescue
him.—(And here is the
will go and return to my place, till they acknowledge their offence,
and seek my face: in their affliction (Until)
they will seek me early.
There is a rottenness and defilement in the House of
God. The Church has become a festering corpse unto God. The Church
can see its sickness and wounds. But instead of turning to the
Lord to heal them, they have turned to the Assyrian, part of the
Babylonian priesthood; they have turned themselves to King Jareb
– (Hebrew: He who contends.)
He contends with God with his mixed teachings, his polluted sacraments
his doctrines and teachings of men and even though he cannot heal
their sickness, corruption or heal their festering wound. The
Church takes great comfort in this, their special friend. –
For he who contends, he is a man rich in tradition, and he has
great meaning in his multitude of ceremony. He is a showman that
always gives a good performance. He always leaves the masses standing
on their feet applauding wildly and shouting his adoration and
throwing down their tithes and offerings.
And yet after his great meetings, after the Church finally
returns home, and they find their sickness and wound remains,
what do these blind and wretched people say in their heart? Is
King Jareb false? – No! They say, “We will go to more
meetings; we must give him even greater offerings. We must buy
still more of his books and tapes and videos. We must follow and
obey all the more after his every doctrine and precept. We must
study and learn of all his traditions, and then we shall be healed
as we gain the fullness of that which he speaks of.” And
then these feel so fortunate, and so comforted that they have
such a one as King Jareb in their midst.
In Our Sex
and Family page we will take the same no-holds-barred preaching
and teaching that we have on our main webpage Ek-Klesia in the
Wilderness. We are committed to speaking those things that
the Lord has given by revelation, only as we can abundantly confirm
these things in Scripture, in the Words of Christ and the Apostles
and finally in what is spoken in the original Greek and Hebrew.
I strenuously feel I am the wrong man for the job in
writing these following web pages on Sex and Family issues –
As I have failed and fell greatly short in all these very areas
during the 23 years of my marriage, a marriage that ended with
the sundering of myself and my wife and of the children of my
household. My marriage ended when my unbelieving wife departed
January 8th 2003 while I was away on a business trip abandoning
my children at home, so I had to immediately cut short my business
trup and return home to care for my children. Shortly thereafter
she filed for divorce. Today my household is split between Alaska
and South Carolina while myself and my two eldest children have
come into a measure of peace, my two youngest are still in turmoil
over the things that have befallen them, their hearts and souls
are ever before me. (So if you want a reason
not to read on, this would be a big one.)
Yet despite all of this the Lord, for close to a year
now, has spoken to me some 200 -300 pages of notes on matters
of sex and family issues, so that I have greatly struggled with
the creation of this page and the writing of the articles that
need to be written here. This has been no small challenge to me
as I have been sick with Congestive Heart Failure and a number
of severe impairments that from June of 2007-- April of 2008 left
me virtually unable to write. But the Lord has seen fit to have
me continue writing once again. So as of April 2008 with this
page being over a year old in all actuality the majority of the
notes I mentioned have not been published but remain still as
notes or as a miriad of articles I started but was not able to
complete due to certain lacks on my part.
Despite all of this I feel compelled of God to write
these. I write not because I am someone, or that I suppose myself
to be someone. Far from it, as I have said elsewhere I fully recognize
that I am nothing, as I wield no special authority from God, I
possess no special mantle, no special anointing, I am little more
than a scribe that records what I see and hear as best as I can.
Even though I am a licensed preacher, I have never been
ordained and am repelled at the thought, and for that fact I have
no affiliation with any national ministry, any church organization
I also feel there are many that are far better than I
to speak these words. Both from a standpoint of eloquence, and
from a standpoint that these others are already known in some
capacity and that if these words were spoken by others that they
might find greater acceptance. But then who am I to question the
wisdom of God in choosing weakness and that which is nothing?
1 Corinthians 1:26-28 For
ye see your calling, brethren, how that not many wise men after
the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called: But God
hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise;
and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the
things which are mighty; And base things of the world, and things
which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are
not, to bring to nought things that are:
So I bow before the Lord Jesus Christ and submit myself
unto Him and His will and purposes.
The following webpage contains articles that have unfiltered Greek
and Hebrew translations (By
unfiltered we mean the traditional translations that biblical
translators give in accordance to the traditions held by their
So that the translations while being backed up by proper scholarship
that will DEFINITELY offend anyone who has discipled themselves
in the doctrines and traditions of 6th century Roman Catholic
Talmudic Christianity, in all its various mordern forms such as:
Calvinism, Victorianism, Feminism, and Political Correctness.
And be further warned that the following webpage may contain any
or all of the following: articles, national polls and survey numbers,
descriptions of sexual practices, images (This
will be kept to an absolute minimum.)
and or links to other websites and helps dealing with, but not
limited to, Christian family issues and Biblical Christian sex
and sexuality issues such as:
divorce in its footsteps.
households after they have been sundered by divorce.
to grips with being unequally yoked in marriage.
married to unbelievers.
training up of one's self in biblical sexuality in preparation
of a long and joyous fruitful Christian Marriage.
repairing and healing of damaged marriages in which Talmudic sexual
acesticism and feminism has brought the holy marital bed to a
state of weakness, sickness, and death.
the training up in the free exercise of biblical sexuality
within the confines of the biblical marriage of a man and a woman.